Let’s be honest, it feels good to feel sexy. To feel so good in your body that you feel desirable… well it just lights you up.

But what happens if you look in the mirror and can’t see that version of yourself looking back at you?

There seems to be a culture of making women think that sleazy is sexy, and it just is not. Lets face it ladies, the average woman squeezing into lacy lingerie that rides in all the wrong places, with bits bulging making us feel even more insecure than we already do just isn’t doing it for our mojos.

Don’t get me wrong, I am all for great lingerie, if it makes you feel good. But I think for the most part for the majority of woman it can just make you feel not enough and only magnify all the bits about ourselves that we don’t love.

However, there is something just gorgeously sensual about a woman who is comfortable in herself. Who feels great, and therefore looks confident, oozes sexiness and everyone in the room wants to be near her.

I know I can make women feel this with makeup and hair and great outfits and good light. So I wanted to take away the fancy styling, and accessories and simplify.

I asked Alexandra who I know has struggled with her body image all through her adult life, to come and play. Inspired by my mentor the amazing Sue Bryce we stripped the set down to a mattress and a few sheets to see if we could help Alexandra feel more confident and see herself as the sexy gorgeous young woman she is.

Check out this quick video we recorded of her shoot, the images at the end to me are beautiful, sensual and absolutely 100% sexy and I love them.